Manuel P Last year, my ex-wife and I agreed on the settlement of our house after our divorce, which is 50/50. She and I agreed not to sell the house (unless she buys me out right before then) until my last child turns eighteen, which will be in 11 years. I was given $25,000 last year upfront from my ex-wife as part of the settlement agreement from the house. I am currently on SSDI too. Don’t know if that will be affected too.
What I am really trying to say is how much (approximately) do I have to pay in taxes for the $25,000 I received from my ex? Being on disablility, how will that affect me too.
November 23rd, 2008 | Posted in United States | 1 Comment
Cowgirl
If you are wanting to divorce your spouse, in the state of Oklahoma, can you divorce them?
November 23rd, 2008 | Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 9 Comments

damey
Divorce is very much on the rise these days and divorce lawyers are more in demand now then they were ever before. Almost everyday when you open a newspaper or a tabloid there is news about celebrities getting divorced from their spouses due to one reason or the other. Celebrity divorce lawyers are very much in the news and in demand these days as a result. So if you happen to be a celebrity or just any other individual and want to seek the services of a celebrity divorce lawyer you need to find out certain things before your hire their services. The first thing which you must be aware of before hiring a celebrity divorce lawyer is that their services are very expensive. Be prepared to tackle this, if you want a celebrity divorce lawyer to work for you.
Celebrity divorce lawyers can be difficult for any one to hire first due to the enormous number of cases that they have to handle and second it can be difficult to seek appointment with them. So, one must make sure that they are looking at the right places, if they are serious about hiring the services of a celebrity divorce lawyer to handle any kind of divorce cases. There are several law firms operating in the United States that have celebrity divorce lawyers working for their clients. Getting a divorce is a hard decision for any one to make and if some one decides to get a divorce they must make sure that they seek the services of an efficient lawyer who will handle their case.
The client must make sure that they discuss the case openly and freely with their celebrity divorce lawyer or any other lawyer that they hire to do the legal work for them. The person just needs to find out the capability of the lawyer and if this is found to be efficient, there is no reason why one could not hire the services of a celebrity divorce lawyer. Divorce cases where custody of children and division of assets are not involved are relatively easier to fight for divorce lawyers of any kind. However if a divorce case involved for lawyer to fight about child custody and division of assets, then the case can become lengthy and many legal issue may have to be dealt with this.
A person who is seeking divorce from a celebrity divorce lawyer of for that matter any other divorce lawyer must make sure that they talk to the lawyer about the different aspects related to the case. Well unless the divorce lawyer has complete knowledge about all the facets related to the case, he or she will not be able to make a strong legal point about the case. One thing people need to make sure about a celebrity divorce lawyer before hiring their services is to find out his track record. Surely one would not like to hire the services of lawyer who does not have a good track record of settling divorce cases favorable for clients.
November 23rd, 2008 | Posted in Law | No Comments
Matthew
My wife moved away from me about 7 months ago and I don’t know here address but I do know she lives in a different state. I want to file for divorce but she says shes going to do it too. I would let her but I want to control the divorce in my state cause I cant travel right now dues to work. What happens if we both file? Thanks in advance.
November 23rd, 2008 | Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 7 Comments
Mrs. Mendoza TTC#1
I’m writing a paper for my psychology class on the effects of divorce on children. If anyone could share their personal experiences (either as the child or as a divorcee with children) I would really appreciate it. Thank you!
November 22nd, 2008 | Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 6 Comments
½ I am in a very shaky marriage right now. We have talked about filing for divorce at the beginning of next year. In recent weeks however things have taken a turn. We are talking about trying one more time.
Here is the fun part! Last week I received a letter from my landlord that he is not going to renew our lease. Financially I am at a good position to buy a house. However I don’t want to buy a house if my wife is going to end up divorcing me and take it. I also don’t want to sign another 1 or 2 year leases to rent.
So I have to make a decision fast on what to do.
One option is getting a postnuptial contract that would indicate if we devoice the house stays in my possession. The trick would be getting her to sign it.
Another option is to create an LLC Corporation, then buy the house using the LLC Corporation. I don’t think I can have this done in the current time frame.
Well there is my situation, anybody have any suggestions on what I can do?
November 22nd, 2008 | Posted in Renting & Real Estate | 8 Comments

damey
Divorce is one experience which can turn out to be traumatic and emotional for a person. Well this is one experience that no one wishes to undergo, but circumstances force people to undergo this. Due to the fragility of the situation, it is very important that a person seeks the services of a divorce lawyer NYC who has vast experience in handling such cases. Well if you happen to reside in NYC, you have to make sure that you hire services from a divorce lawyer that is based there. You would not like to travel every now and then to consult any important impending matter with your lawyer. This can turn out to be an expensive affair for people who are seeking divorce from their spouses. One of the best ways to deal with this is to make the whole process speedy.
Each state in the United States has different laws regarding divorce, so clients will have to make sure that the divorce lawyer that they hire to do their work has the correct knowledge about the laws prevailing in that state. Often, divorce lawyers may also have to deal with the issue of child custody. If there is a child custody angle involved in the divorce, things can really get complicated and full of tensions for the attorney and the client as well. There are several divorce lawyers who practice in NYC and one will not find it difficult to hire the services of a good lawyer in the city.
It will be a good idea for people who are seeking divorce from their spouses to hire a divorce lawyer who has over 20 years of experience in handling such cases. People can be assured that they will get the best services, because he knows all the nuances related to a divorce case. There are many small legal matters that must be handled carefully. Different things like property distribution, custody of a child and such other things must be handled efficiently. It will be helpful for person to hire lawyers who come with client reference. In this way, at least you can come to know that the lawyer is capable of doing good work. The web is one source through which you can find out about divorce lawyers in NYC.
Immediately after hiring the services of a divorce lawyer, the person must sit with the lawyer and discuss at length about the various aspects related to the case. Well he will be representing that person in court of law and so he must be aware of all the things related to this. One must not make the mistake of hiding any facts from the lawyer, or this factor may work out in factor of the opposing party. Divorce is a sensitive issue and all the matters associated with it are also sensitive. The lawyer will first try to make an out of the court settlement and if things work out well, the victim can get over with the entire thing in a short time.
November 20th, 2008 | Posted in Law | No Comments
qcfx2a For some of you who don’t know, America now has a 50+% divorce rate which anyone with a right mind could tell that its a big problem.
Some sociologists and psychiatrists say that one way to solve the divorce problem is to teach people, especially children, the importance of strong family values and strength of character.
But modern day television shows plots where characters are divorced or remarrying and how involved characters deal with it. Even children’s shows have this, usually to help children deal with divorced or remarrying parents.
But the problem is these plots get misinterpreted by kids. That aside from learning how to deal, they get the impression that divorce IS inevitable. That marriage will ALWAYS be temporary.
So now how would you teach kids how to deal with their divorced/remarried parents AND at the same time teach them the importance of strong family values?
November 20th, 2008 | Posted in Parenting | 15 Comments

damey
When the matrimonial vows of ‘for better or for worse’ are reduced to only the ‘worse’ bit, we find couples heading straight for the courts. A painful end like divorce can be devastating for any couple - being a celebrity and in the public eye makes it even worse. In such a crucial phase, celebrity divorce lawyer is a legal advisor that helps celebrities deal with their divorce in the most efficient manner. When a celebrity is undergoing a divorce, it not only involves dealing with a personal failure but also handling the probing eyes of media and the public. At such times the celebrity needs expert advice and help in logically working out the best settlement and that is where a celebrity divorce lawyer steps into the picture.
More or less 49% divorce rate in the United States speaks volumes about the fact why US is known to have the weakest family links. Celebrity divorce forms an integral part of this data hence giving rise to the popular concept of pre-nuptials. A celebrity divorce lawyer however, can ensure that the client gets a fair deal whether or not they had a pre-nuptial agreement. Even if a couple had stepped into the bonding of holy matrimony with pre-decided terms and conditions the impending divorce can blur the decision making capabilities. A professional who is well versed in the legalities of complex divorce proceedings would therefore be a god-send. The demand for a successful and credible celebrity divorce lawyer is therefore constantly on the rise.
A divorce can be a legally complicated issue considering the fact that some laws may differ from state to state. Keeping in mind each and every legal requirement and acting in the best interests of the celebrity client is the job of a thoroughly competent celebrity divorce lawyer. Many a times the decision favoring one partner over the other depends on the clever application of the law according to the state where the case is being fought. This is where selecting the right lawyer to fight the case achieves crucial importance.
Most of the reputed law firms in United States have a team of divorce lawyers on their payroll. Any celebrity can safely hire such a firm and expect competent legal services and the best deal possible. A celebrity divorce lawyer from a law firm of impeccable reputation will be well experienced in handling high profile cases with the utmost discretion and also be media savvy enough to deal with the publicity that is bound to be created by celebrity divorces. Hence even at the end of the day though the celebrity divorce lawyer charges a hefty fee in most cases, the overall benefit to the client far exceeds the amount of money paid for the legal proceedings. The trend of more than one marriage and divorce among celebrities speaks volumes about the efficiency and capability of a celebrity divorce lawyer.
The life of a celebrity is closely followed by the fans and each important event is also of utmost importance to the fans as well. In such circumstances, by adeptly handling the divorce proceedings, child custody, asset distribution etc., the celebrity divorce lawyer is also seen as an ally by the fans of the beloved celebrity. As the old saying goes, ‘a friend in need is a friend indeed’ – and so in modern times with divorces and especially celebrity divorce on the rise, a good, efficient celebrity divorce lawyer is the best bet for an ideal settlement.
November 20th, 2008 | Posted in Law | No Comments

Steven Carlson
The overall cost of your divorce can be impacted by several behaviors you may be able to control. When a marriage dissolves there are several important topics that need to be addressed and sorted out such as child custody and visitation, division of property, and support. Recognizing the following 4 behaviors and how to manage them ahead of time may be able to help your divorce lawyer properly gather the information he/she needs to put your case together and can reduce your divorce costs at the same time.
(1) Having unclear objectives
(2) Being overly enmeshed in your case
(3) Using your lawyer as a therapist
(4) Expecting justice in the courts
Having unclear objectives
One of the biggest mistakes you can make at the outset of your divorce is to not know what it is you hope to accomplish. Before you begin filing or responding to divorce motions, you would be wise to discuss your goals, objectives, and what results you can likely expect with your divorce lawyer. Having such a discussion with your divorce lawyer can help reduce the chances of unnecessary litigation, help you understand what you can likely expect through your divorce, and what the costs may likely be.
Being overly enmeshed in your case
Divorce typically deals with topics that bring about high emotions and intensity, which may result in a spouse becoming overly indulged or enmeshed in his/her case. When this happens, it is not uncommon for a spouse to supply large amounts of irrelevant research material to his/her divorce lawyer, which can drive up the costs of attorney fees. Additionally, a spouse that is enmeshed in his/her case, may begin micromanaging their divorce lawyer’s work, which can create more work for his/her divorce lawyer and be counter productive. Setting clear objectives and goals and knowing what to expect from your divorce lawyer in advance can help reduce the tendency to become overly enmeshed in your case.
Using your lawyer as a therapist
Due to the high emotions that typically go along with divorce, it is not uncommon for spouses to begin venting or discussing problems they had in their marriage or how they feel about the other spouse with their divorce lawyer. Many times, these types of discussions are strictly emotionally based, add no value to the client’s case, and are discussion better suited for a therapist, not a divorce lawyer. Divorce lawyers are typically concerned with facts, not feelings. Additionally, the time a spouse spends in these types of emotional communications with his/her divorce lawyer can add up in costs very quickly. Before initiating communication with your divorce lawyer, decide if the communication is strictly to vent or to pass on worthwhile information on to him/her.
Expecting justice in the courts
Spouses many times believe that if they can just have their day in court, justice will prevail. Spouses who believe that the courts are going to give them justice are often misguided and end up extremely disappointed with the results. Better results and happier divorce endings are often accomplished through mediation and/or stipulated agreements. When a judge makes a decision, it is rarely a win-win decision for both spouses. To manage your expectations of justice in the family courts, you would be wise to consult your divorce lawyer to help you determine what results you can likely expect if your case goes to trial.
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November 19th, 2008 | Posted in Divorce | No Comments